How many of you ladies have been out on a group date? A guy you like and he likes you. You work together. He says, “hey, a bunch of us are going over to a bar after work. You want to come?” You get there and you’re the only woman in the group. He spends more time with his boys than you. Maybe that’s ok the first time, but then he does it again. What’s worse, you pay for a round of drinks!
What is this bullshit? This kind of pseudo dating seems to be very popular today. This tactic is a characteristic of a weak, insecure guy using his friends as a crutch. Someone who’s not confident enough to carry a date on his own. He’s probably super funny and charming in front of his friends – you get him alone and he’s a complete bore. Dump him now! Don’t waste your time.
Any group date should have a 1-to-1 ratio (men to women). The only exception is 2-to-1 (women to men). LOL