Damn, I just realize I took the entire month of March off! I assure you it wasn’t for a lack of shit to write about. Let’s get back to it, starting with this one…
Last week I caught a segment on the Today Show, where a survey of married women cited that a significant percentage of them stated they would pay someone to have sex for them if they could. My question: What’s stopping you?
Every man I know would take his wife up on that offer! And what do they mean “if”? That’s an easy transaction. And that brings me to the Q&A. What’s the harm in prostitution? Especially, if there’s a bunch of lazy, discontent wives out there unwilling to satisfy their husbands?
The answer: None what-so-ever! I say free pussy for every man and let his lazy-ass wife pick up the tab!!!
I just had to comment on this ridiculous point-of-view. I can see that you are one of the men who either doesn’t have a wife (and could be possibly excused for not knowing the following) OR if you do have a wife, I feel sorry for her! In the interest of educating you, and the other men who are not getting any “action” here is what you need to know:
I didn’t see this show on the today show. But as a woman with two long-term marriages and a lot of life experience under my belt, I think I know what’s going on here. Most of these women don’t want sex with their husbands because of one of these four reasons:
1) they’re exhausted from a) taking care of kids with no relief b) working all day long and doing double duty at home making dinner, or long commute hours c) husband not helping out with housework. NOTE: most women are not interested in making love when they are too TIRED to do so.
2) they’re ANGRY with their husband for a) not helping out enough with housework b) leaving them at home with kids while he goes “out” c) no efort on the husband’s part to solve problems in the home which the wife has to deal with every day d) husband devotes little or no time to TALKING to the wife on a daily basis. NOTE: Wives are not interested in making love when they are ANGRY.
3) Women need TIME to prepare for sex. After a day of work, dead tired, no woman likes to be asked just as she’s ready to hit the pillow (already having stayed up too late to get up well for work the next day), “How about it?” NO, women need to know at least a couple hours in advance (so they can arrange enough time, take a shower/bath, feel “in the mood”–NO woman appreciates, “Slam, Bam, Thank-You-Ma’am Approach). Then he rolls over and sleeps while she’s now wide awake and now can’t sleep! So many men would triple their chances of some “action” by just giving their wife some notice in the EARLY evening! NOTE: Women need TIME to be prepared for lovemaking.
4) Some men put little effort into lovemaking the WAY many women want/need. Some men do not realize that FOREPLAY BEGINS IN THE KITHCEN with friendly conversation, spending time together, and helping to get chores out to the way. Once in bed, some men forget that the majority of woman need clitoral stimulation (imagine if someone expected you to enjoy sex without having your penis touched!)and not just vaginal sex. NOTE: Find out what pleasures your wife, NOT what you THINK pleasures her, or what OTHER GUYS say. Just ASK her if she likes this, or not! Sometimes men do things they “think” the woman likes, when in fact it could be hurting her, or she hates it!
Once in bed, a lot of men (after the first few years) resort to the “Slam, Bam, Thank-You Ma’am” approach after not spending ANY time with their wife, or even talking with her, when she is exhausted, and not had any time to prepare (such as taking a shower). Is it any WONDER these wives are not too excited about sex with their husbands???
Paloma Pentarian, on Women’s Wisdom
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I forgot to add one thing to number four above. Some men read tons of pornography and expect their wife to be a BIMBO in bed with NO emotional connection. Sorry! This is not what having a wife is about….
Paloma Pentarian
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As you’ve been able to glean from my bio…I am married (happily mind you), I am a father and I…more than most (even you)…know women. Here’s what you may not know…I agree with everything on your list of “to-dos”. I’ve got a lot of years under my belt too. I’ve been with more than my share of women and ONLY ONE wife. You are dead on, but what you fail to acknowledge is even when we (husbands) do ALL those things you “want and need”…there’s ALWAYS something else. Something else you need or want or wasn’t enough (excuses, excuses). Why??? Because women are NEVER satisfied. And please remember, this survey I spoke of…the women are the ones who wished they could pay someone else to have sex for them. It wasn’t men asking to visit prostitutes.
Thanks for taking time to read my blog! I see I touched a nerve with this one
BTW…Most of us want beautiful, fulfilling lovemaking with our loving wives. And a little down and dirty quickie thrown in here and there makes it real fun!
Try reading my post “Be My Girlfriend Forever” and pass that along to your uneducated band of women http://franktruth.wordpress.com/2009/01/18/be-my-girlfriend-forever/
Can you handle the truth?